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What to Expect From a Loved One With Borderline Personality Disorder


I’m tired of those “How to Deal With a Borderline” articles. Here’s a real guide.

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There needs to be a code word or something that means “my brain is fighting me every step of the way today and I feel like I’m going to vibrate out of my skin, so I need you to forgive everything and go slowly and speak softly and lower your expectations.” And then we could all just be like, “I know I said we could go to a movie tonight but… tangerines.” And the other person would nod and squeeze your elbow or rub your head and you wouldn’t feel like a failure.

"Think about the most emotional you have been for the longest period of time. Remember what it felt like emotionally and physically. Remember how it felt like emotions were just building on each other. Remember the experience of no one understanding how bad the situation was and how emotional you were. Now tell yourself that this is the experience of your loved one [with borderline personality disorder] every moment of every day."
Loving Someone with Borderline Personality Disorder by Shari Y. Manning, Ph. D (via lotusandhare)


I am perpetually
The loss of the
Kind of life
I’ll never lead.

Do you never
Just find yourself
With desire
To be anyone
But you
As you are
At that moment?

— M.S. (via coffee-crinkled-pages)


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